TRANSFORMATION +

SACRED INTIMACY

private and couples Coaching + Mentorship

Immersive in-person experiences | Men’s Work

Allan is a masterful guide in the realm of love, relationships, and deep intimacy. His work is a transformational journey for both men and women— helping them break free from the unconscious patterns that have kept them from experiencing true connection, trust, and devotion.

APPLY FOR Private or Couples coaching + Mentorship

"My life wouldn’t be what it is today without Allan’s guidance—hands down. I’ve worked with many others in this field, but nothing compares to the way Allan teaches and facilitates. The word that comes to mind is integrity. His approach feels so pure, clear, and grounded. I’ve often felt resistance to how some people in this industry present their work—it can feel disconnected or overly abstract. But Allan’s connection to what’s truly real, combined with his willingness to engage with the world as it is, sets him apart. His teaching isn’t just insightful; it’s tangible and relatable in a way that makes the work deeply impactful."

- Austin Armstrong, Coach

“It would not be an exaggeration to say that the coaching I received from Allan saved my marriage. it was exactly what we needed. Allan made me feel 100% safe and 100% validated, and he provided the strong masculine energy that my husband desperately needed. Allan is truly gifted in this work”

Heather McKean, Author, Podcaster

Allan’s work is not about strategies or surface-level techniques—it’s about true transformation. He helps men and women come home to themselves, shedding the layers of conditioning that have kept them from experiencing love in its purest form. Whether working with individuals or couples, he facilitates a profound shift—one that allows love, intimacy, and devotion to flow naturally and effortlessly.

EXPLORE: Sacred Relationship Coaching + Mentorship

deep intimacy coaching, relational development, and polarity

At the core of Allan’s work is the sacred dance of polarity—the magnetic force that draws men and women together in their most natural and powerful expression. He works intimately with couples, guiding them through the challenges that arise in deep relationships and helping them rediscover the passion, connection, and trust that may have been lost. His presence and insight open a pathway for couples to experience love at a level that feels not only healing but deeply aligned with their souls.

“The work my husband did with Allan changed the trajectory of our lives… Allan, thank you thank you thank you for holding such divine space for my man to come alive”.
Kendra Williams, Coach

APPLY: Sacred Relationship Coaching + Mentorship

Who is this for?

Couples feeling disconnected and wanting to reignite passion, trust, and intimacy in their relationship.

Partners LOOKING to develop polarity dynamics and embody their masculine or feminine essence.

Couples experiencing recurring conflicts and seeking deeper understanding and harmony.

Those who feel their relationship has lost its spark and desire to restore emotional and physical connection.

Spiritually aligned couples who want to explore love as a pathway to deeper soul connection and healing.

Individuals in relationships who desire deeper self-awareness, tools, and embodiment for fostering attraction, intimacy, and the love of their life.

What People Are Saying

- James B.

“This has helped me to get to the next level of depth and connection in my relationship, and because of that, I’m able to go out into the world and better help other people do the same. This container was the fire under my ass I needed.”
- Yasir S.

"You see a lot of people talk the talk, but Allan really walks the walk. He really lives and embodies what he’s teaching people. Observing how he’s worked with me through our 1-1 work and observing how he worked within the men’s group has been absolutely incredible."
- Tristan Stanton

“This helped me massively realign my future. Thanks again my friend, as always you are on the frontline of helping men live their lives to their full potential!”

“My mission is to support men, women, and couples to embody their deepest sense of self in life and love.”

Allan mcgrath isbell

At 16, ALLAN began HIS journey of meditation, yoga and personal development.

Today, Allan is a masterful guide, teacher, and mentor in the realm of love, relationships, and deep intimacy. His work is a transformational journey for both men and women—helping them break free from the unconscious patterns that have kept them from experiencing true connection, trust, and devotion. With a rare ability to see into the heart of relational dynamics, Allan supports women in releasing control, softening into their natural radiance, and allowing themselves to truly receive from men. For high-achieving women who have struggled to find love despite their success, he offers a path out of self-protection and into the deep, nourishing connection they’ve always longed for.

His work is about more than just attracting love—it’s about embodying the kind of presence that makes love inevitable.

Allan is the founder of Thirteen Pines and host of in-person Polarity and Intimacy Immersions in boulder, co.