TRANSFORMATION +
SACRED INTIMACY
private and couples Coaching + Mentorship
Immersive experiences | Men’s Work
Allan is a masterful guide in the realm of love, relationships, and deep intimacy. His work is a transformational journey for both men and women— helping them break free from the unconscious patterns that have kept them from experiencing true connection, trust, and devotion.
"My life wouldn’t be what it is today without Allan’s guidance—hands down. I’ve worked with many others in this field, but nothing compares to the way Allan teaches and facilitates. The word that comes to mind is integrity. His approach feels so pure, clear, and grounded. I’ve often felt resistance to how some people in this industry present their work—it can feel disconnected or overly abstract. But Allan’s connection to what’s truly real, combined with his willingness to engage with the world as it is, sets him apart. His teaching isn’t just insightful; it’s tangible and relatable in a way that makes the work deeply impactful."
- Austin Armstrong, Coach
“It would not be an exaggeration to say that the coaching I received from Allan saved my marriage. it was exactly what we needed. Allan made me feel 100% safe and 100% validated, and he provided the strong masculine energy that my husband desperately needed. Allan is truly gifted in this work”
Heather McKean, Author, Podcaster

Allan’s work is not about strategies or surface-level techniques—it’s about true transformation. He helps men and women come home to themselves, shedding the layers of conditioning that have kept them from experiencing love in its purest form. Whether working with individuals or couples, he facilitates a profound shift—one that allows love, intimacy, and devotion to flow naturally and effortlessly.
polarity, deep intimacy coaching,
and relational development
At the core of Allan’s work is the sacred dance of polarity—the magnetic force that draws men and women together in their most natural and powerful expression. He works intimately with couples, guiding them through the challenges that arise in deep relationships and helping them rediscover the passion, connection, and trust that may have been lost. His presence and insight open a pathway for couples to experience love at a level that feels not only healing but deeply aligned with their souls.
“The work my husband did with Allan changed the trajectory of our lives… Allan, thank you thank you thank you for holding such divine space for my man to come alive”.
Kendra Williams, Coach
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Personal Mentorship
Potent 1:1 support for the modern man seeking unshakeable self-trust and skillful masculinity to live a life with deep presence and purpose.
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KING
Principles for Masculine Mastery in Loving & Leading the Feminine - a 3 month program for men.
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Relational Intimacy Sessions
A heartfelt container for couples to create more connection, understanding, polarity, and play in their relationships.
What People Are Saying
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- James B.
“This has helped me to get to the next level of depth and connection in my relationship, and because of that, I’m able to go out into the world and better help other people do the same. This container was the fire under my ass I needed.”
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- Yasir S.
"You see a lot of people talk the talk, but Allan really walks the walk. He really lives and embodies what he’s teaching people. Observing how he’s worked with me through our 1-1 work and observing how he worked within the men’s group has been absolutely incredible."
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- Tristan Stanton
“This helped me massively realign my future. Thanks again my friend, as always you are on the frontline of helping men live their lives to their full potential!”

“My mission is to support men, women, and couples to embody their deepest sense of self in life and love.”
Allan mcgrath isbell
Meet Allan
At 16, I began my journey of meditation, yoga and personal development. Today, my mission is to support men to embody their deepest sense of self in life and love through mens work, coaching, and mindfulness facilitation.
Writings
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She Will Test You Until She Trusts You
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The Safety of Sadness
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Loving What Is In Relationship
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An Art of Living: ExpressingYour Masculine & Feminine